How to know that our love is selfless and truthful? in English

PINTU SINGH 1 February 2020 

What is true and selfless love and how is it?  The easier it is to ask this question, the more difficult it is to answer it.  Because it is very difficult to write feelings and a pleasant feeling in words. 

If someone says that I can tell true love the way it is, then it is exactly the same as if someone says that I can explain Bhagavad Gita like that.  As Sri Krishna explained.  Here I am not going to talk about Bhagwat Geeta but the love I am going to explain.  You can imagine Shri Krishna ji as his hero and Radha ji as heroine.  I am not talking about the love of Dwapar era, I am talking about the love of today, 

I will try to tell you what true and selfless love is as it is in very simple terms. 

Meaning of the word love ?: – Before knowing about selfless and true love, it would be appropriate to know the meaning of the word love, love is not just a word, it is a museum of renunciation of feelings.  Love is the name of dedicating oneself selflessly to the sea of ​​emotions. 

Love, yoga and devotion are different names for the same emotion or action.  Love is a sea in which a person wants to drown and not swim across it.  After attaining true love, there is no desire to get anything in the conscience. 

There is a very popular saying, love is never complete because only the first letter of love is incomplete.  This is not what people think of this saying, I tell it why?  Love is incomplete until you have love.  When your partner or lover meets you, two people together meet love.  That is, it is incomplete without having love, it is complete after being in love.  In this proverb, people have put the entire emotion on his word.  While it is not appropriate, love is a word about emotions.  Putting it above 1 word like this and saying it is not appropriate.  Anyone who has love can never be incomplete because after the love is found there is no desire to get anything else. 

Meaning of the word selfless.: – When an event or action occurs or is done without any desire and personal gain, it is called selfless act.  And to be honest, this action or event is not done, it happens or happens on its own. 

 When you don’t want anything but you want to be with it all the time, then understand that your love is selfless love.  Your love is selfless love at the time when you do not want to get them but wish to lose yourself in them. 

 What is the difference between love and love ?: – 
  • Love is a source of strength and an ocean of infatuation. 
  •  Love teaches to live for life partner, attachment wants others to live for me. 
  • Love is a feeling of freedom, and attachment is a form of restriction full of confusion. 
  •  Love communicates positive light in life, and attachment brings negative energy or darkness into life. 
  •  Love never asks for anything, it is a form of dedication, he is full of selfishness and work, he only asks, he does not know to give. 
  • Love is always from the heart and love is always with the mind. 
  • No one can snatch or break the love, attachment is easily broken and taken away. 
  • In love you give your dominion to your partner and in love you want to dominate your partner. 
  • Where love happens there cannot be anything else, there is no place for any other feelings, attachment is a mixed sense of greed, domination and work and this attachment is always in the clutches of emotions. 
  • When true love is found, there is no more love left, the stomach of greed is bigger than it will ever be satisfied. 
  • When true love is found, you get heaven on this earth itself.  You have attained heaven, fascination, once you have greed, it is the door to true hell. 

Love cannot exist and attachment does not exist. 

 By the way, there is a very fine difference between love and love, so it becomes a little difficult to recognize the difference between these two.  But if love is true, then one day you will definitely know the difference. 

 What is love?  Know what is selfless?  This is also known and what is the difference between love and love, it is also known that what is true and selfless love and what is its nature?  Okay, let’s try to find this out with you and you. 

True and selfless love is like devotion, there is so much difference in it that both of them are devotees and both are also Gods of each other. 

 When you are ready to lose everything to get that one love, then understand this love is true.  Because love is such an emotion that upon attaining nothing else remains to be achieved, it becomes very easy to give up other pleasures of the world. 

 When your mind and soul are ready to believe that now I want nothing more than his love.  When you have no fear of anything other than losing it, then understand this love is true. 

 The moment you see all the happiness of this world in that one love, when you see all your dreams fulfilled after the union of that one love, then understand that this love is true. 

When you feel full when you are with that one love and feel yourself incomplete after that one love goes away, then it is a true love. 

At the time when you give complete freedom to your love as well as there is no fear of losing it, at the time when your faith and dedication does not get disturbed by anything or problem, then your understanding or paint is true. 

Under any circumstance of life, if you find your love beautiful and comforting the mind then understand it is true love. 

 If true and selfless love is to be attained, the mind has to be emptied, its desire will be to renounce everything, its business will have to be removed, only then will true and selfless love be found. 

Love is the most beautiful creation of the Creator, just saying that you do not love will have to perform one’s duties.  Love is the most beautiful and sacred bond of the world, to be honest, it is love that is not free from all the bonds of the world. 

What will happen if someone rejects your love and cannot understand your love?  Some will be disappointed and some will want to be deceived.  But it is not necessary that the person you love should also love you because love is not something to be manipulated or controlled by force. 

 Because love is the power that can break all the bonds of the world for you, but does not bind itself into any bondage.  So leave whomever you love, because freedom is very dear to every living being.  If the love will be true, then he must understand it and he will surely come back and wait till then love with love and selflessness. 

.Radhe Krishna.  .Radhe Krishna.  .Radhe Krishna.  .Radhe Krishna.  .Radhe Krishna.